I've been meaning to sit and record some of my memories from month 1 with Cooper for me to have in the future. I looked on more blogs during those first days to see what my friends' babies were doing at one month to see if I was doing anything right! Things went well for month 1 and it went so fast, almost a blur!
NOTE: This is a really long post. I just wanted to jot some notes for me to be able to look back on.
*the first couple of nights were awful. I was breastfeeding and the lactation consultants told me to not use a paci, so mom and I stayed up all night with our finger in his mouth trying to soothe him. Day 3 he got a paci to help with gassy moments and he was so much better.
*I used mylicon drops religiously after each feeding
*breastfeeding was hard, hard to get going-the pillow My Brest Friend saved me! And Soft Shield Nipple Covers-amazing!
*Cooper was so tiny. I loved holding him on my chest.
*he ate every 2 1/2-3 hours. towards the end of the month he would eat at 7pm, a bottle at 10 and around 2-3 in the morning-given by dad, and then I got up with him at the next feeding whenever he woke up. those days of him growing were crazy and he seemed to eat every time I turned around. no trouble with the bottle. we are just using the medela bottles right now because I pump into them. I have to pump during the night a couple times or I'm miserable. No troubles so far with nipple confusion.
*I'm so thankful for having two full weeks of help from my mom and Jordan's mom. They were amazing and helped me so much to gain confidence in what I was doing.
*Cooper didn't like the swaddle at first, now we use them as his arms frail about and it keeps him asleep. He never slept in our room, always in his crib. But really he would love it if i'd just leave him on the changing table-odd how much he loves this spot!
*He went smoothly through all the colors of poops and now has major explosions. healthy baby and gaining weight, makes me happy. I didn't realize how much these signs would make me feel like I'm doing something correct.
* He travels well. our moms have some of his stuff at their houses to help with the amount of stuff we take each time. But it really hasn't been to bad getting all of our gear together. I find the last few mins. of feeding, pumping (if needing), getting milk together to take is the toughest part.
*When we came home from the hospital we let mello meet Cooper and got all settled. Mom had lunch ready and then I napped :)
*The first weeks of hormones and the feeling of being overwhelmed were crazy!!! It all seemed to subside and get easier after a couple of weeks. Daily life seems to be more "doable" in this new role and I get more and more crazy about this little guy.
*Most mornings we have Cooper and coffee time. This is after I've done his first morning feeding and I get a cup of coffee, we watch GMA and "visit" its really a lot of fun!
*he started to grin and follow us with his eyes by the end of month 1.
*he does great in social settings, but gets worn out from them. I use to think he didn't do anything just sat there, but from our last few events he seems to be so observant of his surroundings and held so much that he doesn't rest well and ends up being exhausted. But he always has such a sweet party face :)
*we got to see so many friends this past month, had great time with family and time as our family and learning this new dynamic
*Cooper already has a spirit of happiness and excitement for new things around him. He gets fussy when he is hungry and then the transition from play time to sleep can be tough. I love when he "talks" to me and looks right at me. I love his little feet and when he holds your finger. We took newborn pics. and I've ordered those. I'm so excited to get them! I'm working on getting his birth announcement mailed out this week (week5). At our newborn session he did great, he had to eat twice, peed on his dad, and had a fussy time, but the rest of the time this child was asleep and
Blaire could move him in all kinds of ways. It was amazing and she is amazing!
*he loves to sleep on his side and enjoys the mobile when falling asleep
*Cooper has big blue eyes that I love, his hair gets really curly when wet-maybe some of Jordan's curls, his legs kick and kick all the time (I've mentioned to him that if football is a desired sport, I'm great with him being the kicker :), his skin was perfectly clear when born and then he got the baby acne-poor thing, his tear duct was clogged so I had to put this gel stuff in it and it worked right away, he weighed in at 10lbs. on his month birthday, enjoys the car seat, his play mat and loves the boppy. I have a swing and lamb seat but he hasn't fallen in love with them. Doesn't really have to be moving all the time which is nice.